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Changing Colors and Letting Things Go

10/22/2022

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​Have you seen all of the things on social media and elsewhere about the beauty and symbolism of falling leaves?

Basically, we're being reminded of the fact that each year, at the appointed time, trees lose their leaves.  
 
What's this got to do with us?
It highlights the need for us to take a moment to evaluate our lives and determine if there are some things we're holding onto that need to be let go.  Some beliefs, some attitudes, some prejudices, dare I say some people, really have no place in our new season and need to be let go.  And speaking of people...
 
Think about how the leaves change color just before they're let go
Some people change colors on us, don't they?  I can't be the only one who thought a friend was a friend til you found out they weren't.  You know, they seemed one way one day, and the next day they're just different.  They have, in essence, changed their colors.  So maybe, like the tree, we need to drop them and let them blow away in the wind.  That's not mean, that's self-preservation.

Our greatest success and brightest, most dazzling SPARKLE comes when our environment supports our peace, our self-esteem, and the plans God has for our lives.  And if we're holding onto anything that isn't in sync with that, let's pray about finally letting that thing or that person go.

It's a new season and the trees are acting accordingly.  We should, too.  
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There's a thing called...

10/22/2022

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When we feel our backs up against the wall… when we feel that no one cares… when we find it difficult to keep on keeping on…

There’s a thing called hope.
And it is what gives us the strength and the courage to face another day.

 
On October 29th and 30th experts from around the country are gathering online for a virtual retreat titled Finding Hope in Times of Challenge.  I think you’ll agree that the timing couldn’t be better.
 
The event is being sponsored by the Global Coach Community and one of their members is a part of our SparkleGram community.  Because she knows we’re about SPARKLE, joy, and all things positive, she’s extending an invitation to each of you to be a part of this excitement – for FREE.  While donations are encouraged, you don’t have to pay a thing.  And you have nothing to lose except for that feeling of hopelessness that can be so pervasive these days.
 
Click here to get the details, including times, topics, and the impressive speaker line-up.  This is a wonderful way to spend a weekend –– or even just a few hours -- from the convenience from your own home.
 
I’ll be making a donation on behalf of the SparkleGram community, so I encourage you to take advantage of this powerful and unique opportunity. 

You can take what you learn at this virtual retreat to help ensure that your SPARKLE is bright and your story is full of happiness and hope.  Remember, I'll soon be offering you a chance to share your story in a published book that will be sold on Amazon.  Details to come.
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"They said I couldn't do it"

10/10/2022

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​I've known this young man all of his life.  He was born with a few challenges, but nothing that God's love and family support couldn't conquer.  And, against the odds, he was recently accepted into the college of his choice and is majoring in something that I can barely pronounce.  Something about aviation.

When he told the story of his college acceptance and all of the wonderful things ahead of him, he said proudly stated, "They said I couldn't do it!" 
Just hearing this brought tears to my eyes
Instead of being discouraged by society's perception of what he could achieve, he used the world's doubt to propel him toward his goal.  Isn't that awesome?  And he's now working with children who are also challenged to help them reach their full potential.
 
I see two important lessons in this for us
Lesson #1:  As women "of a certain age" we still have some goals we're striving for, right? And while the world, or maybe even that tiny voice that lives inside of our heads, could be saying we can't do it, that's nonsense!  The Bible, as well as this young man's example, tell us that that we can do ALL things.

Lesson #2:  This young man is a significant source of inspiration to those around him.  Why?  Because he hasn't been afraid to tell his story.  And I would imagine that he is changing the lives of the children he works with because they must see themselves in him.  I imagine them thinking that if he can get good grades in high school and go to college, one day, they can, too.

 
Who knows YOUR story?
 
Who has benefitted because you've shed some light of something you've lived through?  There is life-changing power and undeniable SPARKLE in your story, please don't be afraid to share it.
 
You don't have to tell all of your business, but if you've been blessed enough to overcome, you owe it help the next sister do the same.

You'll soon be hearing about our third anthology project and this will be a great way for you to craft and tell your story in a published book.
  Let me know if you want the details.
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Here's My "Why"

10/3/2022

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​As you may know, I just recently completed a 6-session course during which I guided women through the process of writing and publishing their own books.  One of the most interesting sessions involved them revealing the "why" behind their desires to become an author.  Uncovering your "why" can help to keep you motivated and often be what's needed to propel you toward success.

I thought today, October 3rd, would be the perfect day to share with you my "why".  Why I created the SPARKLE community and why I care so much about each of you who are a part of it.

If you've ever heard me speak or if you've read my book, Sparkle in the Rain, you know that I survived a very difficult divorce.  I haven't been shy about sharing my story because I know that others are helped and healed by my testimony.
How do I know?
I'm so sure of this because each time I speak, at the end of the session, women come up to me telling me of their own experiences and how my story encouraged them. And people who have read my book have told me how they saw themselves in those pages and how it helped to know that they weren't the only ones going through a difficult time.

Not everyone was dealing with divorce but, in each case, these were Christian women of "a certain age" who felt lost, abandoned, and betrayed by a certain scenario that they never imagined would be a part of their life's story.  They could relate to me and I could relate to them. We were bound together like a sisterhood of women who were determined to bounce back and allow our lights to shine before men that they could see our good works and glorify our Father which is in heaven.  This, as you probably know, is a paraphrase of our theme Scripture found in Matthew 5:16.  And I suggest that because we've been through the fire and come out better than we were when we went in, our light ought to be so bright that we SPARKLE!
 
So why did I create the SPARKLE Community?
I created our SPARKLE Community because I know that women benefit from relationships with other women.  When we share experiences, conversation, and laughter, we're made the better for it. 

My "why" revolves around my desire to create a space, as well as products and services, that allow women to feel a sense of belonging and I want you to know that your voice and your experiences matter.
 
I hope you'll talk back
Please feel free to respond to the SparkleGrams when something hits you.  Tell me what you think and I'll share it here or in our Facebook group.  If you're not a part of our Facebook group yet, I invite you to join today.  I just renamed the group, we are now Women Who Sparkle.  (Let me know if you can't find us using this link.)
 
Nineteen years ago today
My father passed away on October 3, 2003, 19 years ago today.  While my warm and wonderful memories of him are too numerous to count, I will never forget him always encouraging me to try.  "Gail, just try", I can still hear him telling me that. 

It is in his memory that I've chosen to share with you today my "why" and my rededication to trying my best to always make you happy that you're a part of our community.  If I fall short, feel free to tell me. 
 
But enough about me...
What's YOUR why?  What motivates you to do the things that you do?  How can we help you reach your next level of happiness and success?

As I see it, when my light touches your light, and your light touches my light, something powerful happens.  And if the world ever needed the power of our light and our SPARKLE, it needs it now.
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